I’m not writing from the other side I’m still walking it.
Meet Chiemezie
Maybe life hasn’t unfolded the way you thought it would.
I didn’t plan to be forty & single either - but somewhere along the way, life took a different shape.
I’m Chiemezie - & through my writing and the upcoming 40 & Single podcast, I create space for the conversations many Christian singles especially women are quietly having with themselves - about hope, expectations, faith, and learning to embrace the life unfolding right now.
This book was born from that same place - real reflections on singleness, growth, and the unexpected ways God shapes us in seasons we didn’t plan for.
Along the way, I’ve stayed grounded in my faith, completed my PhD, served as a worship leader, & built a life I genuinely love - not because everything went to plan, but because I’ve learned to find purpose in the process.
If you’re on this journey too, what you’ll find here is honesty, perspective, and the reassurance that your life isn’t on hold.
It’s already meaningful, already unfolding, and already held by God.
faith . waiting . becoming
A journey through faith, waiting, identity, and becoming — for the one navigating purpose in the in-between.
Not a story from the other side, BUT one written in the wait.
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Never stopped exploring. Still not sure who Martin is… but clearly he got here before me.
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Turning 39...with absolutely no idea what was coming next.
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Turned 40 and I’m a runner now. I’m still processing that. 🤔
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Tired and yet smiling.
So glad God didn't stop my smile. -
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A moment of becoming—years of faith, discipline, and quiet perseverance brought to life.
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Above the city, reminded that perspective changes everything.
This story doesn’t end here.
It continues in the conversations, the community, and what’s still to come.
